Monday, June 30, 2014

Transfer 6 Week 2

This week my googleable questions were answered before I even got to P-day! Just so you know, praying mantises eat small birds. And whales cannot sneeze.
Fresh Eggs from a member!
This week we met a deaf man with a blind dog. We played Rack-O with an old lady wearing a neck brace and she made fun of me 80% of the time (but it's okay I teased her back, I don't let 80 year olds get the best of me). She referred to herself as a "toothless, braless old hag", aka everything I want to grow up to be. At Walmart I bought granola bars without looking and accidentally got Mocha Bars and wanted to throw myself off a bridge because of COURSE I would accidentally buy coffee granola bars. 
I want daddy to be proud of me because I went to buy some mesquite smoked turkey breast (for nostalgia's sake) and the lady ended up selling me NINE DOLLARS worth of ham for ONE DOLLAR AND NINETY CENTS. Yes. Very very thickly cut delicious breakfast ham. As soon as I had it in my hand I twirled and said "DADDY WOULD BE SO PROUD OF ME!" (Please praise me now, thank you.)
We got a new investigator who is from Tennessee and said he has been looking for a church, but never felt like any were right. And he didn't want to join unless he had a way to know it was the right church. *DING!* Lightbulb. Restoration. Amazing lesson. I danced around afterwards with joy. 
For service this week we worked for a funny Jewish man who is Italian and I am constantly tempted to ask him to say "Go buy yoself somethin nice!". We picked up rocks out of the mud and brushed his donkey and talked to the emu and called it a day. Also we hung out with his nephew, Chaz, who is 10 years old and wants to be an engineer and is from Arkansas and wears glasses and shorts that are a bit too short and told us about space camp. He is all I've ever wanted out of life.
We brought the old Hawaiian lady some flowers this week after painting her porch, and I also gave her the pictures of her dog. She could hardly stand it. She was so happy, she screamed and held her hand to her chest. She was shaking as she took the flowers. She cried and wrapped her arms around us. It is comparable to the time that I gave grandma her Twilight shirt. 
Our investigator shared Mosiah 5:2 with us and told us it's exactly how she feels. Her baptism date is getting closer and we might move it to the 5th or the 12th depending on how she feels about it. 
Filipinos gave us fresh eggs. And yes, fresh eggs are the best things on the planet. I also got an all organic shampoo bar from the same guy who gave me a homemade soap bar. 
The best spiritual experience this week was a testimony builder of listening to the spirit during planning. We had dinner with an active family with a less active father. We were planning the dinner message we wanted to share. We reviewed the record of things we'd already shared with them. Though it made no logical sense the word "prayer" popped into my mind. I sat in silence for a few seconds, then asked Sister Garcia if we could share a lesson on prayer. It made no sense, prayer was so simple, and I was sure they were all doing stellar in their prayers. But she nodded and we wrote it down. 
When we sat down after dinner and shared the message. Her husband had already left to bring one of the sons to football practice. We began to discuss the blessings of prayer. She looked at us and sighed, then she poured out the feelings of her heart. She expressed that she struggled in prayer. She felt as if she was failing as a mother to teach her children to pray. Tears filled her eyes as she admitted to us that she felt unworthy to pray. She didn't get down on her knees before bedtime. She didn't establish family prayer since it's hard with her husband not being comfortable with it. She didn't know how to muster up the courage to get down on her knees at night before getting into bed. She had experiences that week that made her realize that her children didn't understand the nature or power of prayer. She apologized for the mascara tears smudged on her face. We talked with her, encouraged her. She asked if it would be wrong to pray silently, since she would find it strange to pray aloud in front of her husband. We read to her the scripture in Mosiah:

12 And Alma and his people did not raise their voices to the Lord their God, but did pour out their hearts to him; and he did know the thoughts of their hearts.

She said "Thank you, that answers my question perfectly."
I felt impressed to read her the next few verses.

13 And it came to pass that the voice of the Lord came to them in their afflictions, saying: Lift up your heads and be of good comfort, for I know of the covenant which ye have made unto me; and I will covenant with my people and deliver them out of bondage.

14 And I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you cannot feel them upon your backs, even while you are in bondage; and this will I do that ye may stand as witnesses for me hereafter, and that ye may know of a surety that I, the Lord God, do visit my people in their afflictions.

I watched more tears stream down her face as I promised her that the Lord's promise to the people in the Book of Mormon applied to her. I looked around at her beautiful home; gorgeous portraits of her family, her three kids, cute decor everywhere- and I realized how many burdens a mother must carry. Especially this great sister, trying to raise her children in the gospel without support from her husband. Mothers are great warriors. I pray that the Lord will continue to help this great sister. 
I love you all, keep being silly and pinching each other
xoxox
Sister Valdez
The college from where I am emailing.

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